Childhood and family traditions
Childhood and family traditions
- What traditions does your family have?
- What did you do as a child that you do not do now?
- Complete: “When I was younger, I ___.”
When I was younger, I visited my grandparents every holiday.
Teacher reformulation: So, you used to visit your grandparents every holiday.
Words for family memories
Read the words aloud. Choose two words you can use to describe your childhood.
- tradition [/trəˈdɪʃən/]
- традиция
We used to follow this family tradition every winter. - custom [/ˈkʌstəm/]
- обычай
Our town used to have a custom of wearing special clothes. - holiday [/ˈhɒlədeɪ/]
- праздник
We would decorate the house for this holiday. - celebration [/ˌseləˈbreɪʃən/]
- празднование
Our celebrations used to be small and quiet. - family gathering [/ˈfæməli ˈɡæðərɪŋ/]
- семейная встреча
We used to have a family gathering every New Year. - grandparents [/ˈɡrænpeərənts/]
- бабушка и дедушка
I would visit my grandparents on Sundays. - childhood [/ˈtʃaɪldhʊd/]
- детство
My childhood used to be very different. - toy [/tɔɪ/]
- игрушка
I used to have a favourite toy. - hide-and-seek [/ˌhaɪd ən ˈsiːk/]
- прятки
We would play hide-and-seek after school. - visit relatives [/ˈvɪzɪt ˈrelətɪvz/]
- навещать родственников
We used to visit relatives during the holidays. - decorate [/ˈdekəreɪt/]
- украшать
We would decorate the tree together. - cook together [/kʊk təˈɡeðə/]
- готовить вместе
My family used to cook together on Saturdays. - tell stories [/tel ˈstɔːriz/]
- рассказывать истории
Grandpa would tell stories before bed. - play outside [/pleɪ ˌaʊtˈsaɪd/]
- играть на улице
Children used to play outside until dinner. - move house [/muːv haʊs/]
- переезжать
We moved house when I was eight.
Talking about the past
Used to + base verb
Use used to + base verb for:
- an old habit that is not true now;
- an old state that is not true now.
Meaning | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
Former habit | used to + base verb | We used to celebrate New Year at home. |
Former state | used to + base verb | I used to be shy. |
Former possession | used to + base verb | I used to have a red bike. |
I used to live in a small town.
My family used to visit relatives every holiday.
We used to play outside after school.
The form of used to
Type | Form | Example |
|---|---|---|
Positive | subject + used to + base verb | She used to play hide-and-seek. |
Negative | subject + didn’t use to + base verb | She didn’t use to like olives. |
Question | Did + subject + use to + base verb? | Did you use to decorate the tree? |
Important: After did and didn’t, write use to — without d.
Did you use to live near your grandparents?
We didn’t use to buy many presents.
Would + base verb
Use would + base verb for a repeated past action. A time phrase often makes the repetition clear.
Repeated action | Example |
|---|---|
Every summer | Every summer, we would visit our grandparents. |
On Sundays | On Sundays, Grandpa would tell us stories. |
After school | My friends and I would play hide-and-seek. |
Every holiday | We would cook together and decorate the house. |
Every winter, my family would have a celebration at home.
After dinner, my grandfather would tell stories about his childhood.
Use would for actions, not states.
Correct | Not correct |
|---|---|
I used to be shy. | I would be shy. |
We used to live near the forest. | We would live near the forest. |
She used to have a favourite toy. | She would have a favourite toy. |
Past simple for one finished event
Use the past simple for one completed event, especially with a specific time.
Meaning | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
One finished event | past simple | Last Sunday, we visited relatives. |
One finished event | past simple | In 2019, we moved house. |
One memorable event | past simple | My father gave me a wooden train. |
Choose by meaning
Meaning | Best choice | Example |
|---|---|---|
Old habit or state; not true now | used to | I used to have long hair. |
Repeated old action | would or used to | Every summer, we would play outside. |
One finished event | past simple | We played outside yesterday. |
Compare:
We used to visit Grandma every summer.
Every summer, we would visit Grandma.
Last summer, we visited Grandma.
The first two sentences describe a repeated past habit. The last sentence describes one visit.
Common mistakes
Mistake | Correct form |
|---|---|
I use to play outside. | I used to play outside. |
Did you used to play? | Did you use to play? |
I didn’t used to like tea. | I didn’t use to like tea. |
I would be very shy. | I used to be very shy. |
Every Sunday, we visited Grandma. | Every Sunday, we would visit Grandma. |
Choose the best past form
Connect each meaning with its structure
Connect each sentence type with the best structure.
Connect each past meaning with the correct structure.
- a former state
- used to + base verb
- a repeated childhood action
- would + base verb
- one finished event
- past simple
Select the correct phrase
Choose the form that matches the meaning.
- When I was six, I [___] in a small town.
- Every weekend, my brother and I [___] hide-and-seek in the garden.
- In 2019, our family [___] house.
- My grandmother [___] very strict, but she is relaxed now.
Complete the sentences
Say the complete sentence, then type the missing words.
- When I was a child, I [___] in a small town.
- Every weekend, I [___] with friends after lunch.
- Last Sunday, we [___] our relatives.
- Did you [___] to decorate the house for holidays?
How life has changed
“When I was a child, life was very different,” says my grandfather. “We used to live in a small village near a forest. There were no computers or mobile phones, so children used to play outside every day. After school, my friends and I would ride our bikes, play hide-and-seek, and make small houses from branches. On winter holidays, our family used to gather at my grandparents’ home. My grandmother would cook a large dinner, and my grandfather would tell stories about his childhood. We did not use to buy many presents, but we were happy with simple toys. One Christmas, when I was ten, my father gave me a wooden train. I still remember that day. Now families often live far from each other, and children spend more time online. But I think family traditions are still important.”
- Where did the grandfather use to live?
- What did the children used to do every day?
- What would the grandfather do during winter holidays?
- What happened one Christmas when the grandfather was ten?
Difficult words
- branches — parts of a tree that grow from the trunk
- gather — come together in one place
- wooden — made of wood
- presents — gifts
- simple — not expensive or complicated
- forest — a large area with many trees
- far from each other — not living near one another
What to remember
Quick grammar chart
Use | Form | Example |
|---|---|---|
Past habit or state; not true now | used to + verb | I used to be shy. |
Repeated past action | would + verb | We would visit Grandma. |
One finished past event | past simple | We visited Grandma yesterday. |
Tradition vocabulary card
tradition • custom • holiday • celebration • family gathering • grandparents • childhood • toy • hide-and-seek • visit relatives • decorate • cook together • tell stories • play outside • move house
Check the key ideas
Exit sentence: “I used to ___, but now I ___.”


