Make Questions Sound Polite
Say each direct question in a softer way for a stranger or service worker.
Polite starter | Use it for… |
|---|---|
Could you tell me…? | asking for information |
Could I…? | asking for permission or an object |
Would you mind…? | asking someone to do something |
I was wondering if… | a soft, formal request |
First, unscramble these useful words. 🔤
- could (a polite word for requests)
- mind (used in “Would you ___...?”)
- wondering (thinking politely about a question)
- possible (able to happen or be done)
- reception (the hotel service desk)
- tourist (a visitor on holiday)
- station (a place for trains or buses)
- vegetarian (a person who does not eat meat)
Now make these questions polite. Say your answer aloud.
- Where is the bank?
- What time does the museum open?
- Is the station near here?
- Where can I buy tickets?
- Does this bus go to the airport?
- What is the Wi-Fi password?
- Is there a restaurant nearby?
- When does the shop close?
Build Polite Questions
Notice the pattern
Direct question | Polite indirect question |
|---|---|
Where is the bank? | Could you tell me where the bank is? |
Is the café open? | Could you tell me if the café is open? |
Pattern: polite starter + question word / if + subject + verb.
Request | Form |
|---|---|
Ask for a map | Could I have a map? |
Ask someone to speak slowly | Would you mind speaking slowly? |
Make a formal request | I was wondering if you could help me. |
Connect each situation with the best request
Choose the most suitable sentence for each situation.
Connect each situation with the most polite request
- At hotel reception, you need a city map.
- Could I have a map, please?
- You cannot understand the receptionist.
- Would you mind speaking slowly?
- You need directions to the tourist office.
- Could you tell me where the tourist office is?
- You are writing to a hotel.
- I was wondering if you could help me.
Put the conversation in order
Arrange this short hotel conversation from first to last.
Put the hotel conversation in the correct order
- Tourist: Excuse me. Could you tell me where the reception is?
- Receptionist: It is on the ground floor, next to the entrance.
- Tourist: Thank you. Could I have a map, please?
- Receptionist: Of course. Here you are.
Complete the polite questions
Use the word in brackets to complete each sentence.
- Could you tell me where the train station [___] ?
- I was wondering if the tourist office [___] open on Sundays.
- Would you mind [___] slowly, please?
- Could I [___] a map, please?
Put the travel plans in order
Arrange the steps in this polite exchange.
Put the travel conversation in the correct order
- Visitor: Could you tell me if this bus goes to the airport?
- Driver: Yes, it does. The airport is the final stop.
- Visitor: Thank you. Would you mind telling me the ticket price?
- Driver: Certainly. It is five pounds.
Choose a suitable phrase for each place
Connect each place with a polite question or request.
Connect each place with the best sentence
- At a restaurant, you need food information.
- Could you tell me if this dish is vegetarian?
- At a train station, you need information.
- Could you tell me where platform six is?
- At a shop, you want to pay by card.
- Could I pay by card, please?
- At an office, you need an appointment time.
- I was wondering if you have an appointment tomorrow.
At the Hotel Reception
Listen for places, times, and polite requests.
- Where is the tourist office?
- Until what time is it open?
- What does Sofia offer to write on?
- What food information does Daniel ask about?
Choose the Right Polite Question
Choose one need: a menu, vegetarian food, a table, or the price.
- How would you politely ask the waiter?
- Which phrase is best: Could I…?, Would you mind…?, or Could you tell me…?
- Is this a formal or friendly service situation?
Choose one need: directions, the nearest station, a map, or opening hours.
- How would you politely ask the passer-by?
- How would your question change if you asked a receptionist instead?
- Make one direct question softer.
Tourist Help Role-Play
Role: You are a tourist. Your teacher is a local helper.
Use at least:
- two indirect questions
- two polite requests
Scene 1: At the train station
Ask about:
- the platform
- a ticket
- the next train
Scene 2: At the restaurant
Ask about:
- a table
- vegetarian food
- the menu
Scene 3: In a shop
Ask about:
- the price
- card payment
- help with a product
Useful language
- Could you tell me where…?
- Could you tell me if…?
- Could I have…?
- Would you mind helping me?
- I was wondering if…
- Thank you for your help.
- Sorry, could you repeat that, please?
Speaking sequence
- Greet the person.
- Ask for information.
- Make a polite request.
- Ask one follow-up question.
- Say thank you.
Write a Formal Email
Write an email to a hotel or tourist office. Write 50–100 words.
Ask about a room, opening hours, transport, or a local service. Include all three phrases:
- I was wondering if…
- Could you tell me…?
- Would it be possible to…?
Email plan
- Greeting
- Reason for writing
- Three polite questions or requests
- Closing
Useful phrases
Beginning | Ending |
|---|---|
Dear Sir or Madam, | Kind regards, |
I am writing to ask about… | Thank you for your help. |
I was wondering if… | I look forward to your reply. |
Could you tell me…? |
Check before sending:
- Is the word order correct after Could you tell me where…?
- Did you use all three required phrases?
- Is your style polite and formal?
Key Politeness Patterns
Purpose | Useful form |
|---|---|
Ask for information with a question word | Could you tell me + wh-word + subject + verb? |
Ask for yes/no information | Could you tell me if + subject + verb? |
Ask someone to do something | Would you mind + verb-ing? |
Ask for permission or an object | Could I + verb…? |
Write a soft formal request | I was wondering if… |
Decide if each statement is correct.
For next time
Write four polite questions for a visitor in your town:
- One question for a train station
- One question for a restaurant
- One question for a shop
- One question for a hotel


